The Joy We Weren’t Meant to Find Alone

Laura Buck
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Here’s something you may not know about us: alongside your labs and your care plan, we also run a full calendar of community classes — yoga, sound baths, strength training, forest walks, dance parties, and more. And there’s a particular kind of high that shows up in those rooms. It’s the feeling mid-sun-salutation, surrounded by a room full of people breathing in unison. Or three songs into a dance party when the whole room forgets to be self-conscious at the same time. Or in the hush right after a sound bath, when you open your eyes and catch someone else’s, and you both just… know. If you’ve ever left one of our classes or community gatherings feeling more alive than when you walked in — a little lighter, a little more you — you’ve felt it too. There’s actually a name for that feeling, and understanding it might change the way you think about your own health.

In the early 1900s, sociologist Émile Durkheim coined the term “collective effervescence” to describe what happens when people gather around a shared purpose — the surge of energy, harmony, and connection that only shows up when we’re together, doing something that matters to us. More recently, organizational psychologist Adam Grant brought the idea back into the spotlight, describing it as the particular joy of syncing up with others: strangers on a dance floor, teammates on a field, neighbors around a table. It’s not just liking the people around us. It’s a physiological and emotional lift that we simply cannot generate alone, no matter how disciplined or well-optimized our solo routines might be.

This is exactly why we’ve built our practice around more than one-on-one appointments. Yes, we’re here for your labs, your protocols, your health coaching, and your individual functional medicine plan. But we’re also here for the yoga classes, the sound baths, the strength sessions, the forest walks, the mindset workshops, the occasional Zumba song nobody’s too cool to dance to, and the community parties a few times a year that remind everyone why they started this journey in the first place. We didn’t add these because they’re trendy. We added them because we watched what happened when practice members started showing up for each other — not just for us.

Here’s what we’ve noticed, again and again: people don’t just get physically stronger in these rooms. They stop feeling like they’re the only ones dealing with fatigue, or hormone chaos, or the slow work of healing. They find an accountability partner without ever “signing up” for one. They realize the friend they made in last month’s cooking class is now the person who texts them to check in. And research backs up what we’re seeing — our health is deeply shaped by the health of the people we surround ourselves with. Community isn’t a nice-to-have alongside the clinical work. It’s part of the medicine.

Even our own team feels it. Every time our founder walks with our practice members in the cool shade of a forest walk, listens to a practice member share what is going on with them during a mindset workshop, or witnesses a sound bath that runs five minutes long because nobody wants to leave, there’s a specific kind of lit-up feeling that follows — the same one Durkheim was describing over a century ago, the same one Grant reminded a pandemic-weary world that we’d been missing. We keep creating these spaces on purpose, because we’ve seen what they do: they help people feel capable, supported, and lit from within — not just healthier, but more themselves. Our community classes and events are included if you are an Alight Wellness practice member. If you haven’t joined us for a class or a community gathering yet, consider this your invitation. The effervescence is better with you in the room.